A: Good morning everyone, and welcome back to the show. Today we're joined by life-coach, Dr. Anya Sharma, who's going to talk to us about regrets. Anya, thanks for being here.
B: My pleasure! Happy to shed some light on the topic.
A: So, first off, according to the expert, do people regret more the things they did or didn't do?
B: Oh, overwhelmingly the things they DIDN'T do. It's a common misconception.
A: Fascinating. And which two regrets do you hear most often in your practice?
B: Easily, 'I wish I hadn't worked so hard' and 'I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself'. They come up time and again.
A: That makes a lot of sense. For listeners in their thirties, what do you suggest they do?
B: I tell them to ask what their future self wishes they'd start today — and do that ONE thing this week, not next year.
A: Excellent advice! And what do you say to people who feel 'it's already too late' to make changes?
B: I tell them it's almost never too late — the regret of NOT trying is heavier than the risk of failing. That's a crucial mindset shift.
A: Powerful words. On a more personal note, what is your own current regret?
B: Not learning Italian at twenty. I always loved the idea but kept putting it off.
A: And how are you now dealing with that regret, if you don't mind me asking?
B: Not at all! I started Italian at 58 — and have never been happier. It just shows, doesn't it?