Three friends laughing around a café table at golden hour — talking about happiness.
💬 Colloquial English 4&5 · Unit 5 extra

Talking about happiness

B2 · 45–55 min · Apex English

Units 4 & 5 · Proverb
"Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions."— attributed to the 14th Dalai Lama
Happiness is a habit — not a destination.
What is this?

Colloquial English — real, unscripted voices

Colloquial English gives you a break from the textbook voice. You'll listen to three people at normal speed — with idioms, fillers and connected speech — describing what actually made them happy. No fairy tales. Real, everyday joy.

Person on a sunny wall in Lisbon with a coffee — a small happy moment
1. Warm-up

Happiness bingo

5 min

Tick (✓) anything true for YOU. Then find a partner with the SAME tick and ask: "Tell me about it!"

2. Predict

What do you think you'll hear?

3 min

You'll hear three short interviews. Predict which words you'll probably hear — and which you won't.

newbornspaceshipLisboncheap winepenguincoffeejobgravityterrifiedcontent

(Spoiler: spaceship, penguin and gravity are not mentioned — everything else is.)

3. Listening — street interviews

Three people, three happiest moments

15 min
🎙️ Interview: 'What's your happiest moment — and why?'

Listen once for gist, then again for detail.

A. Listen for gist

  1. In one word each, what emotion does each speaker most describe?
  2. Which speaker's happiest moment was BIG and life-changing? Which was SMALL and everyday?
  3. Which two speakers explicitly mention being SCARED as well as happy?
  4. Which speaker seems to argue that happiness is often BORING?
  5. What emphatic phrase does each speaker use to underline how happy they were?

B. Listen for detail

  1. Speaker 1: what time was it exactly, and how much sleep had they had?
  2. Speaker 1: what does the phrase 'this is it' mean in context?
  3. Speaker 2: where was the speaker, and what were they doing?
  4. Speaker 2: what does the speaker say about phones and plans?
  5. Speaker 3: what were they quitting, and how did they celebrate?
  6. Speaker 3: two feelings they had at the same time?
  7. Speaker 3: how do they rank the day now?
  8. What common thread runs through all three answers?
🎧 Authentic Listening · real voices

What actually makes people happy? — a Health & Lifestyle report

Source: VOA Learning English — Health & Lifestyle (adapted) · Adapted from public-domain VOA Learning English format · spoken at slower pace

B1+ → B2≈ 2:30

A short report in the VOA Learning English style: a global survey on happiness. Listen once without the transcript.

Tip: listen ONCE for gist (general meaning), then again with the transcript hidden for detail. Open the transcript only for a third listen.

1. Listen for gist

  • In ONE sentence, what is the main finding of the study?
  • How many people took part, and across how many countries?
  • Above roughly what income does extra money stop making a big difference?

2. Listen for detail

  1. Name three of the small things the report says make a difference.
  2. According to the report, what factor matters MOST for happiness?
  3. Who led the study?
  4. How does Dr Marconi describe happiness in three words?
  5. Who is the reporter's voice for VOA?

3. Glossary

survey (v.)
to ask a large group of people the same set of questions
consistent
similar across different situations or groups
dramatic
sudden and noticeable, exciting
up to a point
only until a certain limit
📄 Show full transcript

From VOA Learning English, this is the Health and Lifestyle report.

For nearly a decade, researchers at the World Happiness Institute have asked a simple question. What actually makes people happy? Their most recent survey, published this year, included more than one hundred thousand people across seventy-two countries.

The results, once again, surprised almost nobody. Money helped — but only up to a point. Above roughly seventy-five thousand dollars a year, extra income made very little difference to daily happiness.

What did make a difference? Small, regular things. A short daily walk. A hobby you were slowly getting better at. Cooking a meal for someone you love. And, above everything else, having two or three people you could call at three in the morning.

Doctor Elena Marconi, who led the study, said the findings were consistent across cultures. Happiness, she explained, is rarely dramatic. It is quiet, it is repeated, and it is shared.

That's the Health and Lifestyle report. I'm Anna Matteo.

4. Discuss in pairs

  • Do you agree that above a certain income, extra money makes little difference to happiness?
  • Who are the two or three people YOU could call at 3 a.m.?
  • Which small daily habit would you add to your life this month to be quietly happier?
4. Vocabulary — phrase decoder

Crack the colloquial code

10 min

Match each expression from the interview to its meaning. Tap to check.

  • over the moon
  • properly content (BrE informal)
  • zero regrets
  • the whole shebang
  • bricking it (BrE, informal)
  • madly happy
  • this is it
  • one of my top three days
  • dodgy (informal)
  • laugh until your face hurts

Use it

Complete each sentence with one expression from the box.

  1. She was absolutely ___ when she got the offer — grinning for a week.
  2. Cheap pizza, cheap wine, karaoke — ___.
  3. I quit last month, and honestly, ___.
  4. I was absolutely ___ before I went on stage.
  5. No phone, no plans, just sun and coffee — I felt ___.
5. Pronunciation

Connected speech: gonna, wanna, kinda, gotta

7 min

When people talk casually about feelings and plans, they squeeze words together. This is called connected speech. You don't need to copy it, but you DO need to recognise it.

🎧 Listen and repeat: written vs. spoken
WrittenSpoken (fast)
I am going to have a great weekend.I'm gonna have a great weekend.
I want to be happy again.I wanna be happy again.
It is kind of perfect, actually.It's kinda perfect, actually.
Do you want to grab a coffee?D'you wanna grab a coffee?
I have got to call my mum.I've gotta call my mum.
I would have cried if you hadn't come.I woulda cried if you hadn't come.

Tip: NEVER write "gonna" or "gotta" in emails, essays or exams. They belong in speech, texts and fiction dialogue only.

6. Speaking

Your turn (solo): record your happiest moment

8 min

Solo task — record a 90-second voice note about the moment you were happiest. Include at least FIVE expressions from section 4. Play it back and tick which ones you actually used.

1 · Set the scene
  • Who, where, sound, smell.
  • Open with a hook: "Right, picture this…"
2 · Describe the moment
  • Use "properly content", "the whole shebang".
  • End with a punchline or small confession.
3 · Self-check
  • Play it back once.
  • Tick each expression from section 4. Aim for ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐.
6b. Speaking challenge

Voicemail to your future self — 45 seconds

4 min

Now record a 45-second voicemail to yourself in 10 years, describing this happy moment so you never forget it. Use at least THREE expressions from section 4 and end with one line of advice to future-you.

7. Writing

Write a small happiness (120 words)

10 min (or homework)

Write a short piece for a mood-journal: describe ONE small moment when you felt genuinely happy. Start with a sensory hook (light, sound, smell), use at least three colloquial expressions from section 4, and finish with a one-line 'why it mattered'.

Example opener:

"The kitchen still smelled of coffee at 8 a.m. on a Tuesday. Rain outside, warm bread, no plans — properly content. Nothing dramatic. Zero regrets. This is it, I remember thinking. Just this."

8. Wrap-up

Exit ticket

3 min
⭐ Keep

One expression I want to start using.

🤔 Check

One expression I'm still not 100% sure about.

🎯 Use

One happy moment this week I'll describe with it.

Challenge

Units 4 & 5 · Colloquial English — Quick check

10 questions · 70% to pass · instant feedback after you submit.

  1. Q1.'I was over the moon when I got the news.' 'Over the moon' means…

  2. Q2.'I was properly content — no drama.' 'Properly' (BrE informal) here means…

  3. Q3.'I quit my job. Zero regrets.' 'Zero regrets' means…

  4. Q4.'Cheap wine, dodgy pizza — the whole shebang.' 'The whole shebang' means…

  5. Q5.'I was absolutely bricking it before the speech.' 'Bricking it' (BrE informal) means…

  6. Q6.Which sounds MOST natural in casual spoken English?

  7. Q7.'Sometimes the happiest moments are the boring ones.' What is the speaker suggesting?

  8. Q8.'One of my top three days.' The speaker means…

  9. Q9.'I laughed until my face hurt.' This means the person…

  10. Q10.Reorder for a natural question: 'you / what / when / were / are / happiest / a / kid / ?'

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